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In addition to appearing on Good Morning America and 20/20 later this week, Rihanna is also opening up to Glamour magazine about her domestic violence case against Chris Brown, what she learned from it, how she has grown, and what she hopes others can learn from her.

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Read some highlights from her interview:

    Glamour: Let’s talk about this past year—you’ve obviously been through some difficult things. How did the people around you help you cope?
    Rihanna: My friends and family have been extremely supportive, and everyone has been there for me. But at some point you are there alone. It’s a lonely place to be—no one can understand. That’s when you get close to God.

    G: Are you referring to the [Chris Brown] incident?
    R: I am talking about starting with the night [before] the Grammys and then on. That was not the only thing that occurred this year. The picture leaking…it was one thing after another.

    G: You’re talking about the photo [reportedly of Rihanna’s injured face taken by police after Brown assaulted her] that was allegedly leaked by cops. You handled that so well; you kept silent in the press.
    R: It was humiliating; that is not a photo you would show to anybody. I felt completely taken advantage of. I felt like people were making it into a fun topic on the Internet, and it’s my life. I was disappointed, especially when I found out the photo was [supposedly leaked by] two women.

    G: How has this event changed you as a person, as a woman?
    Rihanna: I’m stronger, wiser and more aware. You don’t realize how much your decisions affect people you don’t even know, like fans.

    G: Do you feel that this experience has laid the groundwork for coping with anything so public again?
    R: It has taught me so much. I felt like I went to sleep as Rihanna and woke up as Britney Spears. That was the level of media chaos that happened the next day. It was like, What, there are helicopters circling my house? There are 100 people in my cul-de-sac? What do you mean, I can’t go back home?

    G: If you could offer a message to the millions of young women who look up to you, what would you tell someone who found herself in a similar situation?
    R: Domestic violence is a big secret. No kid goes around and lets people know their parents fight. Teenage girls can’t tell their parents that their boyfriend beat them up. You don’t dare let your neighbor know that you fight. It’s one of the things we [women] will hide, because it’s embarrassing. My story was broadcast all over the world for people to see, and they have followed every step of my recovery. The positive thing that has come out of my situation is that people can learn from that. I want to give as much insight as I can to young women, because I feel like I represent a voice that really isn’t heard. Now I can help speak for those women.

    G: I think that’s a great message. What about your new album? What’s it like?
    R: I was involved in a lot of the writing. I put everything I’ve wanted to say for the past eight months into my music. The songs are really personal. It’s rock ‘n’ roll, but it’s really hip-hop: If Lil’ Wayne and Kings of Leon like my album, then I’ll feel good. I would not change anything about it. Even if people don’t love it, I made exactly the piece of art that I wanted to make. It’s super fearless—which is exactly how I feel right now. I am in a really good place.

Rihanna has surely been through hell and back with this entire media debacle, on top of an already terrifying relationship full of domestic abuse. She sounds like she is in a great place now, and we're thankful she is sharing her story so millions of girls can learn from her and be encouraged.

via PerezHilton


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Jackspirategirl89

POSTED 2 YEARS AGO

how is she a positive roll model she went back to them after the incident and then ended it later. But the key point is SHE WENT BACK!!

bobjesky

bobjesky says:
POSTED 2 YEARS AGO

i think she is a positive role model for keeping her cool instead of going berserk. domestic violence is really hard to handle, and she was able to go to the police and report the situation, and then now talk about her experiences. we have to give her so much credit for that.

sani

sani says:
POSTED 2 YEARS AGO

i am a little disappointed. she didn't go out all the way. it was just general statements that i could have made without having experienced anything like it: yes it was tough. my friends and family were there for me and supported me.... and so on.

Fiona

Fiona says:
POSTED 2 YEARS AGO

G: If you could offer a message to the millions of young women who look up to you, what would you tell someone who found herself in a similar situation?

This made me so angry! Women, women, women. It's not just women who are the victims of domestic violence. And it's the way people write articles like this that make men who are victims of domestic violence feel even more ashamed, humiliated and afraid to speak out and admit that they are a victim of domestic violence.

It’s one of the things we [women] will hide, because it’s embarrassing.

Yeah? Women find it embarrassing? What about the men who are suffers too? It's not. just. women.

I want to give as much insight as I can to young women, because I feel like I represent a voice that really isn’t heard. Now I can help speak for those women.

And who is speaking for the men?! Open your eyes already.

"we're thankful she is sharing her story so millions of girls can learn from her and be encouraged."

Millions of men are in the same situation. Just because it's much less talked about, doesn't mean it isn't happening.


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